on hiatus....

It has been a while.....that usually means things in life are going well and i feel no particular urge to vent about all the things wring in my life, or they are bad; and I have been spending a lot of time putting out fires, so to speak.....

Well, nothing like an engagement to bring out the best and worst in people....people who think they can help (they can't) people who think they know what they are talking about (they don't), people who think you are selfish for wanting to go away and get married as opposed to spending thousands of dollars to entertain friends family (And we're selfish??), people who think that taking your child to Caribbean island is equivalent to taking to Central Congo......geesh...I suppose I could go on.

So right now; we are tentatively getting married in Cuba......Jan 2013. Sometime between the 7th and the 15th....let me know if you would like to join us......